Love One Another

“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:35

The last months have been filled with tears, hardship and despair. At times, the words and actions of others have made the sting even greater. But, I believe now more than ever that it is the love that we have for one another and that we show one another in real, tangible ways that God uses to heal and restore and strengthen. I am learning how to better love others in seasons of suffering through the example of those who have ministered to me so well along the dirt road.

Sometimes it’s a cup of coffee and a listening ear. Sometimes it’s a warm embrace or a quick call asking if you’re okay or how to help and pray. A handwritten card or a thoughtfully chosen, simple gift on the front porch or in the mailbox from afar. And yes, sometimes it’s even a casserole or a meal to make one part of the day a little easier. Always, it’s the truth of God’s goodness, faithfulness and grace. And in the pain, which Jesus says we should all expect, those simple acts of love linger and continue to tell a different story than the one you might otherwise tell yourself.

You are not alone. You are loved. You will get through this. God is with you, and for you. And He can be trusted - even in this.

Then we find our way back to the steadiness of standing on the Rock of Ages, one wobbly step and one deep, longing breath at a time.

“And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.” 1 John 4:16